December 07, 2020 5:38pm Not all lives are cookie cutter. Sometimes you get married before you become a student. Occasionally we have relationships that don't last. Sometimes it takes a while to get our shit together. We all grow up differently at different times and in different ways. Stop the shame game and let's give the one hero parents a shout for being a good example. Parenting is not only a woman's game. This one is for the dads doing it for their babies no matter what the courts say.